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If a friend tells you not to let this guy or girl in, you need to tell that friend to mind his or her own business. This is your life, and your future…not your friend’s. It would be a bummer to look back on life with regret that you didn’t make that first move or take a relationship you cared about to the next level. Don’t give up on a girl that easily. You probably don’t meet girls who stand out to you on a daily basis, so seize the opportunity.

When the date or get-together is over, let her know you had a good time and that you hope to do something similar again soon. Call or text the girl you are interested in within one to three days.

Communicate your life story to them in a way which is humble, fun, and interested (and creates a little attraction in women) and the right people WILL notice. This rule is here to make sure you don’t just settle for that first girl. To assure you’re not chasing anymore. To assure you WILL be ready when the time and the right woman comes along.

Remember, the reason she gave you for the breakup may not be the true reason. (Kalish says her research shows that 90% of the time, the parents cause the breakup.) Besides, if you really like her, you don’t want to ruin the chances that you might get back together someday.

1. Make the decision: You want or need a girlfriend

• Simply add the word “sometime” to keep it open ended.
• You want more?
• First, if she’s taking the initiative.
• Be respectful to her by opening doors and not trying to move too fast to get to a physical relationship.
• You’ll begin to understand that getting a girlfriend is not the most important thing in the world, in fact it’s more like an added bonus to your already awesome life.

You might be able to get lucky every now and again when you meet a woman and you don’t have to do anything and she likes you, but that is not a consistent reliable approach to get a girlfriend. When you do, what you’ll notice is that many of the women you meet feel attracted to you and they show you their girly side. Now, one thing to point out is that you don’t have to talk to a woman like that all the time. What you may have noticed is that some guys, when they meet women, are able to start talking to them and sparks fly immediately between themselves and the woman.

Whatever it is, don’t worry about getting rejected and get on with life. Approach girls and don’t be afraid if they reject you or don’t want to talk to you. It’s happened to every guy.

When you’re “on the hunt” for a girlfriend, women will immediately pick up on this and it’ll make you seem needy. You’ll be the one chasing them instead of the other way around. When you’re with her, live in the moment. Try not to worry about commitment or the distant future. She’s a friend, so enjoy your time with her.

3. Don’t Be in “Girlfriend Search Mode”

There are 7 billion people on Earth, and 3.5 billion of them are women. Of those, 2 billion are potentially datable.

Any random schmuck with some game can bring home a high quality girl on any given night. But keeping her around for the long-term is a different story (that’s why so many guys are left scratching their heads when wondering how to get a girlfriend). And so, you need to fine-tune your conversation skills.